What "HE" Wants Actually...

That was the only time i met him and the last time i chated to him. Few weeks later and you still havent talked to him but you found his myspace and you wanted to ask him a question, instead of saying hey whats up because i wanted the conversation to be interesting, i wanted him to say something that is worth talking about. the reason i still keep in touch with him it is because im interested on him , he’s all you ever think about but he’s few years older than me and you’re not so sure if he feels the same way. I just want the conversation to be interesting. what do i ask him?

I know i probably thinking i can’t love someone who only met once... webcam...etc... Sometimes you might feel helpless and you feel heart break when you think of him.. It just like , you wish to have him in your life. But it is impossible unless there's miracle appear.

... What guys want..

They will prefer a girl with a sense of humor as well as someone who can laugh at herself in the face of embarrassment. A girl who doesn't get jealous of other women (and trust me men will look, you can't stop this genetic problem, as long as they don't 'look' for too long and they DO NOT touch) and a girl who is physically into her man. A girl who is friendly and gets on well with his friends, but not so well that he may feel threatened by it. Guys like a girl who is able to support herself. This doesn't mean you need to be a millionaire, it just means you don't have your hand out expecting him to bail you out of your financial troubles as soon as you get together. Most men are attracted to a girl who is independent. It shows strength of character.

Besides that, a girl who doesn't continually worry about her weight, what's she's eating and complaining that she's overweight. The guys I interviewed said it's not a girl's size that counts, it's whether she could pull off a great personality. Apparently weight issues annoy them very much. So gals' get over it and love yourself for who you are!! The guys will love you too! For a girl who respects the time 'he' needs with his friends. As you need with yours, this is what guys like too.

Now I want to tell all you girls out there that although we should not conform to what a male wants, we should consider the male perspective (especially about the weight). Sometimes men can be right. Sometimes women can be right. Many of the needs outlined are pretty cool really! These guys were all refreshingly level headed.

It seems, most guys want a fun, passionate, well adjusted, independent girl who's not too scared to try new things. And really for most girls, that's what we strive to be anyway (so they can't be that far off the mark, can they?)

So there's hope for us all!

Natalie .. 21/11/08