I Just Want to Meet The Right Person

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"Sometime i wil think that "W hat the hell is the matter with me.... I dont know , perhaps i am shy, perhaps i have a low self esteem, perhaps i am the most ugliest and hideous person ever . You will never know how much i long for someone to share my day with , to sharte my life experiences , and to laugh with. Many people i meet are shallow , they only look on the outside and not the real person . i guess i am doomed to be alone , its hard to face -lonelyness "


Replied , Natalie :
Come on sweetie.. I'm sure you aren't the most ugly, hideous person ever. If everyone you meet only looks at the outside, you need to find a new place to meet people!! I've felt that way for the longest time and still do quite often. I suspect that you have the same problem as me, a problem loving yourself. If you start to love yourself and care less what others think of you, you will see good results. No matter what anybody says or thinks about you, it should not change the most important love of all which is self love. Love yourself first, and then you'll become more open to loving experiences from others. not everyone is shallow. I used to think this too, but I've come to realize that most of the non-superficial just aren't overly vocal about it, so you'd have no idea unless you got to know them.

There are no hideous and ugly person as i believe, GOD created us equally. And if u think that ur ugly, maybe im ugly too. not having someone by ur side doesnt mean that your ugly. it means its not the right time yet for you to have someone....Just wait and dont loose hope, am sure right time will come.. and right person. Just think that there's no ugly person in the world, not you, not me, nor anybody...believe in urself, love urself, and most of all believe in GOD...he will give u strength and self confidence. as well as he will give someone to love u.. just like my man whom GOD gave to me...

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Here are some tips for successful dating. - If you need it.. lol...

• Plan your date in advance. Find out what the other person likes to do and Plan something fun that you will both enjoy.
• The first date should give you a chance to talk and get to know each other. It is better to make some jokes... But not too Over Pls... :D
• Don’t go to a movie! Nothing much you guys can do in the cinema, wasted your 2 hours . Just go for coffee or a drink at a local wine bar. Cheers~
• Keep the conversation light. Don’t talk about your problems or your ex. Thts ridiculous.. LOL
• Be positive and have a good sense of humour. Everyone likes to be with someone who is fun. Lighten up and have a good time.
• Be punctual.
• Don’t talk on your cell phone. ( He/She will be not happy )
• Don’t talk about yourself all night.... Bla Bla Bla... Ask your date questions and be a good listener. It shows that you are interested.




Nat